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Stop People Pleasing

Jun 25, 2021

Go to to do the quiz: Are you ready to stop people pleasing?

Today’s episode is a look at Paul Thomas Anderson’s 2017 film Phantom Thread through the lens of stopping people pleasing. WARNING: SPOILER ALERT!

I talk about the lessons, as well as the ANTI lessons for you. This will be an especially important episode if you have ever got caught up in a relationship where there was a power imbalance.

For example:

  • How easy it is to fall under the spell of a brilliant wo/man
  • What the 1950s setting is a metaphor of
  • An alternative to having power over someone else
  • The meaning of Alma and Cyril as lessons and anti lessons
  • Where boundary setting comes into all this

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